Don’t stay with a bad partner

I wrote this poem a few days ago. I have been supporting someone who has left an abusive relationship and it made me think of my own second marriage which was abusive. For those of us with Parkinson’s, we are vulnerable enough under normal circumstances, but certainly being with someone who is abusive, whether itContinue reading “Don’t stay with a bad partner”

Memories…

One of the things that can occur for many of us Parkies is that we start to have issues with remembering things. Some would say, that is just old age, but even if you do not have that many years under your belt, you may still have trouble remembering things. I know when I workedContinue reading “Memories…”

Continence – A wee problem and a wee poem!

Every now and again I get the urge to write a poem about something in my life. Today I am going to a talk about continence issues, a subject that many of us may not admit to having. I hope you enjoy this poem. Continence – A wee problemThere seems to be a problem ofContinue reading “Continence – A wee problem and a wee poem!”

Diagnosis – What did they tell you at the time?

This afternoon I was reading a post on a Facebook page for people with Parkinson’s and those who care about them. In that post they asked the question “what information did you receive from your doctor the day you were diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease?” That is a very good question to ask and I amContinue reading “Diagnosis – What did they tell you at the time?”

What is love?

For the past two days I have been in the kitchen making hearty homemade soups and casseroles. This is quite a novelty for me as for so long now – probably 2-3 years – I have had so much pain from my knee and then my back, that I couldn’t stand for long enough toContinue reading “What is love?”

Please and Thank you and assumptions

Like most people born in the 50’s, 60’s and perhaps the 70’s, manners were drummed into me from the earliest age. We were taught to respect our elders and those in authority and always, always, say please and thank you. If I stayed at someone’s house, I was to say, “Thank you for having me!”Continue reading “Please and Thank you and assumptions”

Voicing a problem…

In this blog, I have spoken about many aspects of my life with Parkinson’s and new things are cropping up all the time. Subtle changes in swallowing, maybe a memory that’s a bit worse and some other things so subtle it’s hard to put a finger on. I think I might notice a bit moreContinue reading “Voicing a problem…”

A busy day today… I saw an old lady…

I have had a very busy day today. It started with going to hospital for an appointment for a Coronary CT scan as I have been having sporadic visits to hospital due to significant chest pains. I have had ECG’s on several occasions and nothing seems to be showing as heart attack material at thisContinue reading “A busy day today… I saw an old lady…”

An older person is a person too – A poem about ageing

You see an older person, so wrinkled and so slowBut they are still a person, we’re lucky we can knowThe picture that we have of us and how we cope so wellCan sometimes have a different view, we hear our children tellNo longer in the flush of youth, we’ve memories to shareOf lives we’ve livedContinue reading “An older person is a person too – A poem about ageing”

Continence and other joys – A poem about ageing

There are many joys in growing old and many not so muchThere doesn’t seem a body part that doesn’t hurt to touchThere is skin that’s not so stretchy, it separates in foldsThe saggy bod and saggy boobs, sure show that we are oldThere’s eyes that do not shine as bright, as they did in ourContinue reading “Continence and other joys – A poem about ageing”