“By eck, by gum would you Adam and Eve it!”

Pretty random huh! I have been thinking today about the difference our culture can make for us. Also, about the definition of culture. Often culture is seen as part of your ethnicity and that can be true. But, it is also about the experiences and influences that you grew up with and your family culture.Continue reading ““By eck, by gum would you Adam and Eve it!””

Confidence and ‘Imposter Syndrome’

Sometimes what people see in us, can be difficult to accept as it may differ greatly from our own view of who we are. I identify with the concept of ‘Imposter Syndrome’ as I have never felt completely confident in what I do. I felt that I externally projected an image of a confident personContinue reading “Confidence and ‘Imposter Syndrome’”

Anxiety and trusting myself

Anxiety, it’s quite a new thing for me to be as anxious as I can be with this Parkinson’s now. I’ve always been, verging on a bit of a shy person when I first met people. Even though I’m usually quite outgoing, I do find entering into a room with a whole lot of peopleContinue reading “Anxiety and trusting myself”

When we were young

Some thoughts on when we were young and how the experiences we had have equipped us to challenge this condition and to not give in. Through learning to be independent and to think for ourselves, we know what we need in the way of support to succeed. Here is a link to a podcast aboutContinue reading “When we were young”

A poem – not about Parkies!

Every now and again I will write a poem and share it on my blog and podcast. They are most often about things other than Parkies, because my life has a whole lot of other complexities as well. This is about my main health issue that bothers me the most at present. Arthritis is aContinue reading “A poem – not about Parkies!”

The risks of retiring and future planning…

There comes a time in most couples’ lives where there is a major change in how those lives are lived. In fact, there are several but here are some thoughts. If you have brought up children together and the last child leaves home, this major change can – for some – mean that the coupleContinue reading “The risks of retiring and future planning…”

‘Across the generations’…

 Today I’ve called this post ‘Across the generations’ and I’ve called it that because of an experience I had taking my uncle who’s 89 out op shopping and for coffee and lunch. We’ve often done this together ever since his wife became ill and then ultimately passed away last year. So we’ve just, I don’tContinue reading “‘Across the generations’…”

Ade and Sue’s Law… worse than Murphy’s!

Most of us will be familiar with Murphy’s Law. Where anything that can go wrong will go wrong. As a couple we have “Ade and Sue’s Law” where often things have not gone according to plan, even when – we thought – nothing could do so! Today is our 15th Wedding Anniversary and we areContinue reading “Ade and Sue’s Law… worse than Murphy’s!”

Anxious about being anxious

We are in a tropical paradise having a lovely relaxing time. We have not booked any tourist tours and are just enjoying relaxing together. The one thing in particular that has surprised me is the difficulty I have snorkelling. I don’t just get a bit stressed, I have been extremely anxious starting out. Just sittingContinue reading “Anxious about being anxious”