Be careful what you ask for…

One thing that I know, is it can be when someone is asked a question about their driving – ‘I’m a good driver’ – or how much they drink ‘just a glass of wine each night’ – or ‘I don’t need to write things down, I’ll remember’ their truth may not be ‘the truth’ asContinue reading “Be careful what you ask for…”

My happy place…

Do you have a ‘happy place’ or ‘happy thing’ that boosts your mood and makes you feel good? For me I have a couple that stand out. I love to do things for other people that put a smile on their face. Even when I was still quite early in my journey after my kneeContinue reading “My happy place…”

Terrible typo…

I was just re-reading my previous post about my checkup with the surgeon who operated on my knee. For some reason, I had put that I was recovering from ‘a significant car accident’. No idea where that came from, but it illustrates that I must be very careful in proof reading before I publish inContinue reading “Terrible typo…”

‘You’re looking grumpy!’

I read with interest a post on the Facebook page that I follow for those affected by PD and those that support them. In the post the person was talking about their behaviours and how they may not always be fully aware of them. At times they say that their children had thought they were angryContinue reading “‘You’re looking grumpy!’”

Looking for silver linings

I was visited today by a friend of mine, whom I have known for several years. We started talking about some of our previous relationships and how some of the negative aspects of those relationships still impact us today. Both of us have previously been in an abusive relationship and been on government assistance to helpContinue reading “Looking for silver linings”

The magic of grandchildren…

This weekend we have our three grand-daughters for a couple of days. It seems like ages since we have had them to stay due to a number of factors, such as my operation and COVID in their household. As with any teens and pre-teens, the girls love their smartphones and are frequently on their devices. However, theyContinue reading “The magic of grandchildren…”

New diagnosis for younger people with Parkies

I am now entering my fourth year of living with Parkinson’s. I am fortunate to have a very supportive husband and family and that I remain reasonably independent and continue to work. There are some unmet needs though, that need expression.At some point we are likely to have to face the fact that I cannot continue toContinue reading “New diagnosis for younger people with Parkies”

Carers views vs PWP

This journey of ours that we travel on with Parkinson’s is a challenging one. There is no denying that. If we have family who support us or partners that live with us, it is a joint experience and each affects the other as we learn what Parkinson’s means for us all. I was reading a post inContinue reading “Carers views vs PWP”

Happy 3rd Anniversary…

I have just realised today that I missed two Anniversary’s this month. The first of which is the Anniversary of my diagnosis of Parkinson’s on 15/12/20. The second a happier Anniversary on 21/12/20 when we moved into our beautiful home in Kaiapoi. As I write this I am at home and in recovery mode from my kneeContinue reading “Happy 3rd Anniversary…”

Not feeling particularly good right now

There are two dates in my life that I very much struggle with these days. One is 4/10 – the date on which my eldest son Adam passed away in 2020. The other is 3/11 – the date of his birthday. He would have been 42 years of age this Friday. I am finding itContinue reading “Not feeling particularly good right now”