One thing that I know, is it can be when someone is asked a question about their driving – ‘I’m a good driver’ – or how much they drink ‘just a glass of wine each night’ – or ‘I don’t need to write things down, I’ll remember’ their truth may not be ‘the truth’ asContinue reading “Be careful what you ask for…”
Category Archives: Trauma
Dreaded Dentist!
Well, today I started off my Friday with a trip to the Dentist. My second dental appointment in as many weeks. I must say it will never be the highlight of the week! Ever since I was a young child I have dreaded going to the Dentist. I remember when we saw the school Dental Nurses, that they wereContinue reading “Dreaded Dentist!”
Looking for silver linings
I was visited today by a friend of mine, whom I have known for several years. We started talking about some of our previous relationships and how some of the negative aspects of those relationships still impact us today. Both of us have previously been in an abusive relationship and been on government assistance to helpContinue reading “Looking for silver linings”
A dress rehearsal for Parkies?
I commented to my husband this morning that I feel like my body is attacking me. Not only am I recovering from pretty major knee surgery, but I have another issue plaguing me. I find that if I sit and rest for a bit after walking around, that as soon as I stand up I get electricContinue reading “A dress rehearsal for Parkies?”
What is the smart option for you?
Tonight I attended the first monthly support group for 2024. We are a bunch of early stage people with Parkinson’s and all under 65. Partners are welcome too and it is nice to see them tapping into the group as a support. We talk about many things at this group and while it is a relaxed typeContinue reading “What is the smart option for you?”
Parkinson’s fear and shame…
I have started listening to a Podcast today titled “Fear and Shame in Parkinson’s”. They had a panel of people with Parkinson’s talking about the topic and what it means to them. I have to say, it is very easy to see the fear part of the Podcast topic. Let’s face it, if you focusContinue reading “Parkinson’s fear and shame…”
Does Parkies accentuate existing anxieties?
As any of you who follow this Blog will know, I have stated that I have always been a ‘words person’ rather than a ‘numbers person’. I often say that there is a good reason I am a Social Worker and not an Accountant and that is because I have never got on with numbers.Continue reading “Does Parkies accentuate existing anxieties?”
Not feeling particularly good right now
There are two dates in my life that I very much struggle with these days. One is 4/10 – the date on which my eldest son Adam passed away in 2020. The other is 3/11 – the date of his birthday. He would have been 42 years of age this Friday. I am finding itContinue reading “Not feeling particularly good right now”
Disability Discrimination and ignorance…
I am a member of a very supportive Facebook Page for people with Parkinson’s in Australia and New Zealand. It is for the most part a positive page and a great forum for discussion about the things that affect us Parkies folk! I read with concern a post by a member of the group, whoContinue reading “Disability Discrimination and ignorance…”
Feeling… Fragile, Frustrated and Fearful!
With each day that passes a little bit more of my usual resilient self seems to be steadily chipped away. Being in constant pain, just makes me more emotional in so many ways. Now, after working out that I can’t in all likelihood get an operation to replace my painful knee, we are facing havingContinue reading “Feeling… Fragile, Frustrated and Fearful!”
My journey with Parkinsons 