Ability vs Disability

As anyone who follows my blog will know, as I recovered first from my knee replacement surgery and then from my back operation – which was a major – my primary aim has always been to get back to bowls. I feel lucky to be able to now play bowls again and I was ableContinue reading “Ability vs Disability”

Please and Thank you and assumptions

Like most people born in the 50’s, 60’s and perhaps the 70’s, manners were drummed into me from the earliest age. We were taught to respect our elders and those in authority and always, always, say please and thank you. If I stayed at someone’s house, I was to say, “Thank you for having me!”Continue reading “Please and Thank you and assumptions”

You don’t know what people are dealing with…

I was talking to a friend recently about their relationship, which as it turns out, is not what we might have thought it was. She has been living with a very controlling spouse and she has done her best to keep this under wraps, so that most who know her would not have guessed. IContinue reading “You don’t know what people are dealing with…”

Arrogant Assumptions…

I feel I am naturally programmed to advocate for people. Not just for people I work with as a Social Worker, but also in life. The reason for the title for this particular post is that there are a number of arrogant assumptions in this world, that I really find I need to challenge. IContinue reading “Arrogant Assumptions…”

Using ‘aids’ in the future

Walking along an uneven track near the beach today, it occurred to me – not for the first time – that at some stage this may be difficult for me. Then, straight away something else occurred to me… Yes, maybe one day I won’t be able to walk so well over uneven ground, but soContinue reading “Using ‘aids’ in the future”