Fighting for my rights – being my own advocate!

I have mentioned recently that I have been trying to get an appointment with my Neurologist, with no effect thus far. I will have been diagnosed four years ago on 15/12/20 and at the time of diagnosis, I was told that I would see my Neurologist annually. However, I have not had an appointment with him since that day. I have tried to get hold of his nurse and left messages and she has not returned them. My GP was away and I saw a locum GP who agreed to write a letter to my Neurologist requesting an appointment. So far, I have not had any response in any way, shape or form to tell me what – if anything – is going to happen in relation to my seeing my Neurologist.

So, I have decided on the ‘squeaky wheel’ approach and as phone messages have not been responded to, I have written an email to the Parkinson’s Nurse.

It goes as follows:

“Hi ……

I am concerned that I have not had an appointment with …… since he diagnosed me nearly 4 years ago. At the time I was told that I would be seen annually. I think with a degenerative condition, that it would be very important to have my health and symptoms checked at least annually by a specialist such as……… I know I am under the care of my GP predominantly for my general health and wellbeing, but he is a generalist and not dealing with Parkinson’s as his ‘bread and butter’ as my Neurologist is.

I have been noticing some subtle changes and have had to give up work in May this year, so I really need to see ……….. and have a proper discussion about my condition and to have some questions answered, so that I know at least a bit more about what to expect.

The fact that you described me as a ‘slow burner’ when we have met is all very well, but I feel like a few things have changed just in the last 6 months or so and some quite recently, that I am concerned that maybe things are for some reason developing more quickly.

Could you please organise for me to meet with …………. soon, so that I can get the support that I and my husband deserve.

Thank you.

Sue Waight”

Reading my email, it does come across as somewhat terse. But, to be fair I am over playing nice as it gets me nowhere. Now that I am no longer a Social Worker and don’t need to advocate for others anymore, I can advocate for myself and my right to have the support that I need and deserve.

At least with an email, I can prove that I have asked to be seen and also whether or not I have received a reply.

It will be interesting to see if the nurse replies and if so, what her response will be.

Update hopefully to follow soon.

Published by kiwipommysue

I am a retired Social Worker having retired in May 2024. I had been a Social Worker for over 20 years and for the sake of my health and wellbeing I chose to retire early. I have some literary projects underway and am enjoying the freedom of no longer working. Working on my projects at my own pace and enjoying my new hobby of lawn bowls is a wonderful thing. No regrets and a new kind of busy in retirement is wonderful.

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