Parkies people and personality

It seems that I frequently notice changes in the person that I am due to my diagnosis, but often in a positive way.

My husband’s mother used to be someone who would strike up a conversation with anyone when she was out and about. We would often joke about it and give her cheek. We would leave her sitting on a bench while we shopped and as we walked up she would introduce us, having told people about us while she waited. I had never been someone to do so, that is up till recently.

Since my diagnosis, though I seem to have changed in my outlook. I find my self chatting to people in coffee shops and other places. I joke to my husband that I have taken up the mantle now his Mum is no longer with us.

Another thing is I feel I can pick people who have Parkinson’s. I sometimes feel like asking people if they do have Parkies, but resist the urge to do so. In my mind I think ‘do you have a diagnosis?’ or ‘I wonder how you are doing?’ it would be intrusive to do so, but I can’t help but wonder.

Just because I am open with my diagnosis, I know a lot of people aren’t. So, I don’t ask the question but continue to have the internal dialogue in my head.

Published by kiwipommysue

I am a retired Social Worker having retired in May 2024. I had been a Social Worker for over 20 years and for the sake of my health and wellbeing I chose to retire early. I have some literary projects underway and am enjoying the freedom of no longer working. Working on my projects at my own pace and enjoying my new hobby of lawn bowls is a wonderful thing. No regrets and a new kind of busy in retirement is wonderful.

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